Everywhere we look we are bombarded with advertisements. We are constantly urged to buy this, or go there. We are told that if only we have this gadget or use that product we will be so much happier or so much more successful. If we buy the latest fashion we will find acceptance. This lotion or cream will make us more beautiful.
There are many differences between people. Those who live in different areas of the world look different from one another. Their societies and cultures, their music, their concepts of beauty and their ways of thinking are quite different. However, one thing which all societies have in common is that they practice marriage. The rituals and ceremonies concerning marriage in one part of the world may be different than somewhere else, yet all peoples recognize the joining of a man and woman together to form a household.
We like to have control. We enjoy it when something responds to our command or touch upon the controls. To operate a machine which enables us to do more that we are physically capable of gives us a sense of power. We touch a lever and a power shovel takes a bite out of the earth. We twist a small wheel and it turns a huge truck or a ship. We press a key and a computer begins a complex task or computation. The bigger, more powerful, complex or dangerous the machine the greater the thrill there is in operating it.
When we look at the beauty of what God has made, our hearts rejoice. Like the Psalmist we cannot help but pour forth words of praise and thanksgiving. “Sing to the LORD with thanksgiving; make music to our God on the harp. He covers the sky with clouds; he supplies the earth with rain and makes grass grow on the hills. He provides food for the cattle and for the young ravens when they call.” (Psalm 147:7-9 NIV)
Though we take delight in what God has made and in the bounty He gives us, it also raises a question. Does God take delight in us? How can we please Him?
The prophet Isaiah noticed something very strange about the people of his day. He wrote, “The carpenter measures with a line and makes an outline with a marker; he roughs it out with chisels and marks it with compasses. He shapes it in the form of man, of man in all his glory, that it may dwell in a shrine. He cut down cedars, or perhaps took a cypress or oak. He let it grow among the trees of the forest, or planted a pine, and the rain made it grow. It is man’s fuel for burning; some of it he takes and warms himself, he kindles a fire and bakes bread. But he also fashions a god and worships it; he makes an idol and bows down to it. Half of the wood he burns in the fire; over it he prepares his meal, he roasts his meat and eats his fill. He also warms himself and says, “Ah! I am warm; I see the fire.” From the rest he makes a god, his idol; he bows down to it and worships. He prays to it and says, “Save me; you are my god.” They know nothing, they understand nothing; their eyes are plastered over so they cannot see, and their minds closed so they cannot understand. No one stops to think, no one has the knowledge or understanding to say, “Half of it I used for fuel; I even baked bread over its coals, I roasted meat and I ate. Shall I make a detestable thing from what is left? Shall I bow down to a block of wood?”” (Isaiah 44:13-19 NIV)
One of the greatest mysteries in the universe is the mutual attraction which exists between men and women. It is not something which can be predicted with any certainty – people who seem totally unsuited to each other fall in love and happily marry, while others who, on the surface, seem to be totally compatible with each other detest one another. A wise man once wrote, “There are three things that are too amazing for me, four that I do not understand: the way of an eagle in the sky, the way of a snake on a rock, the way of a ship on the high seas, and the way of a man with a maiden.” (Proverbs 30:18-19 NIV)
No matter how much we enjoy our profession, there are certain aspects of every job which are tedious, boring or which we do not like. No work is one-hundred percent enjoyable all the time. Unfortunately, there are many people who are trapped in occupations or jobs which they do not enjoy. Their days are filled with dreary drudgery. Their minds wither from the tedious mechanical repetition of their tasks. Some people even have bosses who exploit and abuse them. The only reason they go to work is it is the only way to earn the money they need to survive. We may not always be able to change jobs or find work which we like. Those over us may not always be kind and considerate. However, there is a way to make any job, no matter how distasteful, more bearable.
We all know of people who seem to lack judgment. Given a choice, they will inevitably pick the worst option. While a prudent person will hesitate to take action these people will boldly rush forward with total certainty – usually to the harm of those around them. When it is time to keep silent they loudly proclaim their opinions. When it is time to speak, they keep silent. When they happen to say the correct thing, they will do it at the wrong time. We call such people, fools.
We live in an age when people try determine everything by science. There is no doubt that science and the application of the things we have learned through science has greatly benefited mankind. Fewer people go hungry because we have learned to grow food more efficiently. We live longer and know how to cure more illnesses than ever before. By the application of the knowledge we have gained through science we can do things mankind could not do in previous ages like fly and easily communicate over long distances. Some people think that by means of science we can solve all our problems.
If you ask someone how much money he needs, quite often the answer will be, “More!” Very few will admit that they have enough. Very few are satisfied with the amount of their possessions or their income. In fact, most of us spend much of our time pursuing a bigger income, a nicer and more spacious house, a bigger car, the newest computer or smart phone.